There was an item on the local news the other night that I found fascinating. A number of students at the university campus were holding a rally advocating for a Diversity Center as a gathering place that would acknowledge the diversity of the campus and provide a place and programs that would focus on that aspect of their identity. Given the cash-strapped condition of higher education, my immediate thought was “re-inaugurate the Student Union as the Student Diversity Center and you’re done!”
Authenticity
Open the Box – A Fish?!
Awhile back I was working through a visualization exercise mentioned in Steven Pressfield’s book “Do the Work”. My first post regarding this can be found here and if you search my blog you’ll a number of other visualizations that I’ve found useful using this. Let me summarize what this entails:
- Imagine a box with a lid. Hold the box in your hand. Now open it.
- What’s inside?
- It might be a frog, a silk scarf, a gold coin of Persia.
- But here’s the trick: no matter how many times you open the box, there is always something in it.
Over time I’ve found a golden table, a pressure washer, wood floors and a few others.
I hadn’t exercised my imagination in this way for a while, so I decided to give it a go and opened the box afresh. Today I found……a fish.
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Want to Be Heard? Listen…and Hear…
Do you remember the little plastic animals, usually dogs, that people used to place in the back windows of their cars? These plastic pooches would nod their heads as the car moved, giving the impression that they were looking around. Sadly, I see this plastic behavior sometimes taking place in meetings I attend. Someone is presenting an idea, a report, training or just carrying on conversation, and some of the people around are making appropriate nods and noises, but their follow-up conversation and engagement belies their inattentiveness. Even if they ARE listening, they don’t hear what is being said.
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Credibility: Take a Chance on Me!

Credibility
My first career out of high school was as a musician in the U.S. Navy music program. My primary instrument was euphonium (also called a baritone horn) and there was a requirement to learn to play the trombone so I could be a part of other kinds of ensembles. Versatility is a foundational trait for musicians, and the Navy is no different. I was also a self-taught keyboard player and had written some jazz tunes and done a bit of arranging. After completing the initial bouts of training, I was sent to my first band in Hawaii (that was a real heart-breaker!).
One of the regular functions of any Navy band is to provide a wide range of kinds of music in various sized ensembles to address the dynamic needs of those who request the band. This meant solo piano, brass quintet, jazz combos of varying sizes, contemporary music, concert band, ceremonial band, marching band….just about any kind of music you could come up with using a group of about 30 multi-talented musicians.
This was my first real experience with a recursive rule. I couldn’t wrap my head around how I was supposed to get experience playing in a small jazz group without being able to work with a small jazz group. I wasn’t the only person in the band that ran into this, of course. All of the young, new folks who wanted to do this were in the same predicament.
Before I tell you what our solution was, I want to cast this problem into another context.
The nature of careers, society and industry in our economy now is such that the majority of us run into the same ‘policy’ everywhere.
- Unemployed – Cast away from your former role, whether by choice or not, chances are you re looking for work in a different company than the one you left. You have to convince the hiring teams that you are well able to do what they wish you to do. However, many of these companies hesitate because they feel that somehow you need more experience doing EXACTLY the job they are hiring for, despite the illogical reasoning (and the likelihood that the job description they are hiring for isn’t REALLY, ENTIRELY what you’ll end up doing, anyway…).
- Entrepreneur – You took the leap and started your own business, whether as a solopreneur or with a small team. You’re working through all the right steps in setting things up, marketing, networking, business planning, researching your product, financials….everything is solid and on track. You’ve even gotten a few customers, but testimonials are few (this is a NEW business, after all!). In discussing a proposal with a new potential client, she would like you to demonstrate the actual and, preferably, exact value of your proposed product or engagement for her business before she’ll consider the proposal. Well, you and your team are more than able to deliver all the items that are part of the proposal, and more. But, since your business hasn’t actually delivered a package like this before, you don’t have hard data or a testimonial or five on THIS PARTICULAR PACKAGE….
- Growing your Career in a Company – You’ve worked for the company for some time, holding a number of different roles. You’ve been successful, carrying the experience you’ve gained from one group to another, and the company has benefited as well. Now it’s time to look at a new role, maybe even something a little different from what you’ve been doing so far. You’ve spent a lot of time studying the role, shadowing some top performers you’ve met, and even gotten some outside education to prepare yourself. Nonetheless, you’ve never actually PERFORMED in this role before. Much like the examples above, the hiring team seems hesitant to move you into this role, since you’ve never done it before….
Want To Be Heard? Speak Softly…
Who doesn’t want to be heard? I’ve got things to share and so do you. Passions, beliefs, information, opinions, jokes…the list is pretty long.
6 Blogs to Enhance Your 2015
It’s the last few days of 2014 and the Internet is packed with looks forward and backward, best of/worst of lists and the like. I’m not immune to assessing some of the more significant resources I use regularly, and so am passing onto you a short list of six of the most enlightening, not to mention entertaining, authors that I read and ponder.
Work-Life Blend: The Holiday Edition
It doesn’t matter really. If you’re a solopreneur, a director of a corporate business unit, a team member at an international enterprise or any other kind of role designation, you run into this.
Trust, Relationships and #H2H
Recently a friend of mine made a long-ish post on Facebook. It was an apology and a mea culpa. Although I had missed the earlier post she referred to, she stated that she was caught off-guard by other people’s reaction to it. She said that, in retrospect, she agreed with one friend of hers that had actually reached out to her about it: it was an offensive and prejudicial post. She apologized for the first post, a very real and human thing to do.
What she was hurt by was the fact that a number of her ‘friends’ had ‘un-friended’ her (in Facebook vernacular…) without asking her about the post, commenting on it, or even just responding in some way. She couldn’t understand why people who knew her would react in such a knee-jerk manner without asking her why she felt this way or further questioning the post.
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Now What?!
Every business hits this wall at some time.
Sustainability, Triple Bottom Line and the Solopreneur
A business forum I attended a while back consisted of a panel of folks from various kinds of businesses, including a local bank, a cafe’/bakery, an architectural firm and local health care. The discussion revolved around how they each approached the overall idea of sustainability and the Triple Bottom Line (TBL) of People, Planet and Profit (or as they were presented: Social, Environmental and Economical). Each have very interesting and unique approaches, and the challenges they encountered (and still work through…) were instructive.

